[horde] apache owes

[RYAN vAN GINNEKEN]

Ok i have been tring to figure out what is happening with horde i 
installed on freebsd 4.8 and was running apache2 with some namebased 
virtual servers.  After i installed horde  my  webservers are down 
infact apache is down i got these messages in my httpd-errorlog

[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 11595 still did not 
exit, sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 944 still did not exit, 
sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 7794 still did not exit, 
sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 234 still did not exit, 
sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 10726 still did not 
exit, sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 237 still did not exit, 
sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 10727 still did not 
exit, sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:46 2003] [warn] child process 10728 still did not 
exit, sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:47 2003] [warn] child process 944 still did not exit, 
sending a SIGTERM
[Fri Jul 25 02:27:48 2003] [notice] caught SIGTERM, shutting down

and this in my syslog when i try to start apache2
Jul 25 16:31:48 v20 /kernel: pid 48425 (httpd), uid 0: exited on signal 
11 (core dumped)
Jul 25 16:32:36 v20 /kernel: pid 48439 (httpd), uid 0: exited on signal 
11 (core dumped)
Jul 25 16:34:57 v20 /kernel: pid 48452 (httpd), uid 0: exited on signal 
11 (core dumped)
i noticed that there are now two httpd.conf files
usr/local/etc/apache2/httpd.conf    this is my original file
/usr/local/www/silkymail/silkymail/apache2/httpd.conf  this is the new 
file i am confused pleas help